Have you tried to become friends with someone but the bond didn’t form? Don’t worry. I have come like James Bond to rescue you😁 There are four pillars to create bonds. I learned them after struggling with not making friends for many years. Before showing you the pillars, I will like you to understand that …
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The strength of your social life is largely determined by how effective you are in communication. Having been a victim of several heartbreaks because of poor communication skills, I took out time to study how humans understand what we hear so I can be better at making people understand what I say. Here’s the result: …
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This won’t be like our regular blog post. It’s more like a story. But in the end, you will have learned how to make everyone leave you alone. Or how to develop immunity to peer pressure. Let’s go! Usually, I never saw peer pressure as a reality that could hinder people from being who they …
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Is spending time alone a good or bad thing? Spending time alone in our context means an act of willingly separating yourself from the hustle and distractions of life and the environment into a place where you can be alone with your thoughts. Some people naturally find this exciting while others, most of the society, …
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It is inexcusable that times will come in everyone’s life when they will have to be alone; not just for 5 minutes or while waiting for a bus. I mean days, weeks, and years of ‘loneliness.’ Those times may be the result of painful experiences or necessary transitions in your life, but they must come. …
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One of the biggest issues people face (which I also faced) when trying to change their friends is how to do it without fighting. How in the world will I walk up to this person who has always been my friend and tell them I’m no longer interested? That they suck, or what? This was …
One of the saddest parts of finding yourself in the web of loneliness is when you continue to get more friends and hang around more people but continue to feel lonely. This experience is not limited to just one person. There’s no person who became free from loneliness by making more friends. Although freedom from …
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Solitude and loneliness are two different experiences although they overlap sometimes. Solitude is a physical disposition while loneliness is a psychological disposition. Loneliness is a feeling of lack of connection with the environment while solitude is being in an environment where it is just you. Loneliness is a feeling; not the absence of people or …
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The 21st century comes with varying degrees of social pressures to conform to certain expectations and these conformities cme with grave dangers. The ability to handle social pressure, therefore, becomes an important skill everyone needs today. Below are practical steps you can take to be free from social pressure. How To Overcome Social Pressure 1. …
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There are so many dangers and negative influences that come with all forms of social pressure. This is not limited to the negatives you are being pressured to, like social media pressuring you to pornography. It also includes all the effects the very act of pressure has on the individual that is being pressured. That …
