You might wonder, “what does it feel like to date someone with an anxious attachment style?” Especially if you’re someone with a secure attachment style. Or you have an avoidant attachment style and you do not understand the mechanisms of getting along with someone with an avoidant attachment style. How do they all come together? …
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What do you even use to measure if you’re compatible with someone? I was quite surprised when I discovered by experience that you can have so many similarities and similar interests with someone and still not be compatible for marriage. Now I’ve learnt that there are 3 pillars to marriage compatibility.1. You like their personality2. …
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Knowing how to create strong bonds is not all there is to making close friends. If the person you’re trying to bond with doesn’t like you, all your moves to become close to them will be annoying. So instead of them feeling one with you when you share about your day, they’ll feel you talk …
Have you tried to become friends with someone but the bond didn’t form? Don’t worry. I have come like James Bond to rescue you😁 There are four pillars to bond. I learnt them after struggling with not making friends for many years. Before showing you the pillars, you must understand that the primary key to …
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The strength of your social life is largely determined by how effective you are in communication. Having been a victim of several heartbreaks because of poor communication skills, I took out time to study how humans understand what we hear so I can be better at making people understand what I say. Here’s the result: …
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This won’t be like our regular blog post. It’s more like a story. But in the end, you will have learned how to make everyone leave you alone. Or how to develop immunity to peer pressure. Let’s go! Usually, I never saw peer pressure as a reality that could hinder people from being who they …
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Is spending time alone a good or bad thing? Spending time alone in our context means an act of willingly separating yourself from the hustle and distractions of life and the environment into a place where you can be alone with your thoughts. Some people naturally find this exciting while others, most of the society, …
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One of the biggest issues people face (which I also faced) when trying to change their friends is how to do it without fighting. How in the world will I walk up to this person who has always been my friend and tell them I’m no longer interested? That they suck, or what? This was …
It is inexcusable that times will come in everyone’s life when they will have to be alone; not just for 5 minutes or while waiting for a bus. I mean days, weeks, and years of ‘loneliness.’ Those times may be the result of painful experiences or necessary transitions in your life, but they must come. …
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One of the saddest parts of finding yourself in the web of loneliness is when you continue to get more friends and hang around more people but continue to feel lonely. This experience is not limited to just one person. There’s no person who became free from loneliness by making more friends. Although freedom from …
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